Finding the female G-spot is almost a guarantee that your sex life is about to hit new heights. Hitting this sweet spot can lead to mind-blowing internal orgasms, intense blended orgasms, and even female ejaculation – basically, a whole lot of fun in the bedroom!
But where is the G-spot? And what should you do once you’ve found it? Here’s everything you need to know…
Let’s start at the beginning – what even is a G-spot?
The G-spot is an internal erogenous zone that can be found just inside the vagina, at the front of the vaginal wall. This spot is made up of sensitive tissue that, like the clitoris, can feel amazing when stimulated.
So, if you usually struggle to orgasm from internal stimulation alone, finding your G-spot could be just the thing to revolutionise your sex life.
‘Where is the G-spot?’ really is an age-old question, as the female G-spot is famously elusive. When looking for the G-spot, we’d recommend playing on your own at first to figure out your body and what you like – once you know for yourself where this sexual sweet spot is located, it’ll be much easier to direct your partner. Here are some tips on how to find your G-spot, step by step.
Turn up the heat
The very first step is quite simple – relax and turn up the heat. When you’re aroused the G-spot naturally dilates and fills with fluid, making it much easier to locate. Before you head towards any internal play, start with some external stimulation until you’re feeling turned on and ready to go.
Location, location, location
Locating the G-spot relies on the answers to two important questions: how deep is the G-spot, and what does the G-spot feel like? You can generally find the G-spot between 2 to 3 inches inside the vagina. It’ll feel slightly different from the vaginal wall around it – like a ridged mound.
To find your G-spot, make sure you’re laying comfortably. As we always say, everything is better with lube, and using plenty here will increase your comfort and turn up the pleasure. With your palm facing upwards, insert one or two fingers (whatever’s comfortable for you). The G-spot is located on the roof of the vagina, so angle your fingers forwards slightly in a tickling, or ‘come hither’, motion and you should hit the spot!
So, you’ve found your G-spot. Now what? This sensitive spot is packed full of nerve endings, so play around and see what feels good for you. Gently circle your G-spot, or speed things up and apply more pressure depending on what you enjoy. Once you feel comfortable with the location of your G-spot and what feels good, you can instruct your partner on how to find it too. Don’t be afraid to be vocal – tell them what you like, and exactly how much you like it.
Due to their closely linked nerve endings, combining a G-spot massage with external, clitoral stimulation can result in the holy grail of orgasms – the blended orgasm.
Blended orgasms are some of the most intense orgasms you can experience, and the G-spot is key to getting there. While your G-spot is being treated to a tantalising teasing, encourage your partner to use their other hand to gently rub your clitoris. To take things up a notch and really add to your pleasure, have them flick their tongue or a Vibrating Egg over your clitoris while massaging internally – you’ll be tipped over the edge in no time.
Whether you’ve already found the G-spot, or you just need a little helping hand, introducing a vibrator into the mix can help directly target your G-spot and lead to some seriously amazing sensations. Better still, opt for a G-spot vibrator! G-spot vibrators are expertly sculpted with curved tips to reach just the right spot.
Hitting the G-spot during sex is the best way to bring about an explosive, internal orgasm. Combine with a little clitoral stimulation too, and you’ll be enjoying those fabulous blended orgasms in no time. Some positions are ideal for hitting your G-spot – others require some small modifications to target the right spot. Here are some of the best sex positions for G-spot pleasure.
Missionary doesn’t usually involve much G-spot stimulation, but one quick trick can change all that; simply place a couple of pillows beneath your lower back to alter the angle of penetration. With your pelvis raised slightly, your partner is in prime position to hit your G-spot and take you straight to the Big O.
For another way to adapt missionary for some extra G-spot stimulation, why not try sex ‘The Lovers Lock’ position?
Doggy style is all about deep penetration and, as your partner is entering you from behind, you can guarantee G-spot stimulation. To take doggy style to new heights, turn up the heat and have your partner use their free hand to play with your clit – you’ll be enjoying those intense blended orgasms in no time.
Who doesn’t love cowgirl? This classic sex position allows you full control over the speed and depth of penetration, meaning you can adjust the angles to target all those sweet spots. For G-spot stimulation, simply lean backwards slightly, placing your hands on the bed or your partner's legs for support. Straddling your partner in the reverse cowgirl position before leaning backwards also allows for great G-spot targeting.
Like doggy style, spooning requires your partner to penetrate from behind, so is the perfect position for a little G-spot action. As an added bonus, both of your hands are free for some external play, so why not bring a vibe into the mix for next level stimulation? Our ‘Spoon-In’ sex position offers more tricks to get the most out of this position.
Locating the G-spot may seem daunting at first, but we promise you, the search is well worth it! Once you understand your body and what feels good, you’ll be well on your way to those incredible internal or blended orgasms. You can thank us later!